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You will need to carry out a careful conversation and only when it is hinted at, may you ask someone what they do or openly try to guess.The same can be said about asking someone if they're single/ married.There are many things I love about Scotland and Scottish people (humour, landscape, friendliness) but the one thing that really makes me fall for this country is their sheer delight at a good chat/ rant session.Whereas we Canadians are a lot more utilitarian when it comes to words, the Scots are playful and cheeky.For example, it's not really polite to directly ask someone what they do for a living.Sure, that is the second thing we ask each other in North America, right after "What's your name? So instead, you need to find these sort of details out in a roundabout way.If you want to date a Scottish dude, be prepared for some verbal jousting; these people can talk rings around us.I said it before and let me elaborate more: Scottish people don't have the dating culture that we do in North America; they don't even like to say the word, "date".
Which brings me to my first point: This takes some getting used to.
However, I still think there is some hang over from the "olden times" when it was generally encouraged for men to be the "strong and stoic" type.
Clearly I don't approve of such encouragement because I think it's important to remember that men are a lot more complicated and dare I say it, delicate than we let them be.
Firstly, I won't question why it is a Scottish man in particular that you want to date because hey, I get it: you saw Gerard Butler in a film once and dug his accent and assume that all Scottish men are that rugged and handsome.
[: I saw Gerard Butler walking down Byres Road a couple weekends ago with this current-model girlfriend, and although my heart was a flutter at the idea of Gerard Butler, in reality it was a bit of a let down as he looked pretty hung-over].